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When couples disagree about the depth of sacred humor

My partner thinks I'm missing the point when I just laugh at Nasreddin stories without trying to extract spiritual lessons, but I think they're missing the point by being so serious about humor. We're stuck in this pattern where they explain why something is wise and I feel like the spiritual lightweight.

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Different relationships to wisdom can create hierarchies that undermine the very equality humor seeks to reveal.

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