My roommate leaves all the windows open when storms are coming because she loves the drama of it and I'm always running around closing them and we've turned weather into this weird passive-aggressive thing where we're both trying to control the same space.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're both using the physical environment to communicate something you haven't said directly, and the weather has become a proxy for a deeper conversation about shared space and boundaries.
“Where Are You with Weather and our relationship to it?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.