My sister and I have always bonded through making fun of our parents' quirks and family drama, but now that we're both in therapy we keep catching ourselves and apologizing for being 'mean.' We've created this weird dynamic where we can't enjoy our old irreverent connection but don't know what to replace it with.
More people experience this than they realize.
Self-consciousness has poisoned the well of your most natural connection.
“Where Are You with The sacred clown?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.