My spouse and I moved to the countryside so we could both have more solitude, but now we're together all the time in ways we never were in the city, and we can't figure out how to create separate spaces without building actual walls. We thought physical space would automatically create the breathing room we needed, but we've just brought our same patterns of over-togetherness to a bigger stage.
More people experience this than they realize.
Geographic solutions don't automatically solve relational patterns - sometimes they just give those patterns more room to expand.
“Where Are You with Solitude in nature?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.