My teenage daughter and I planted a small herb garden during lockdown as something to do together and it was actually working until she lost interest and now I feel guilty maintaining it alone like I'm betraying our shared project.
More people experience this than they realize.
One person wants to preserve a symbol of connection while the other has naturally moved on, creating an unspoken tension about who owns shared growth.
“Where Are You with Gardening and growing things?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.