My wife and I are great at handling our life logistics and terrible at remembering we actually like each other and when we try to plan 'fun' dates they feel forced and awkward like we're strangers trying to recreate someone else's relationship.
More people experience this than they realize.
You've optimized for function and forgotten how to simply enjoy each other.
“Where Are You with Companion animals?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.