My wife and I have been together fifteen years and we've gotten really good at being married but somehow forgot how to surprise each other. We know each other's routines perfectly and anticipate each other's needs and it's beautiful and also completely predictable. I can't remember the last time either of us did something spontaneous.
More people experience this than they realize.
Mastery of partnership has paradoxically eliminated the delightful unpredictability that feeds romantic aliveness.
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Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.