My wife and I have gotten into this pattern where we discuss everything to death - every movie choice, every weekend plan, every conversation about the kids becomes this heavy negotiation and we both miss when things felt lighter between us but we don't know how to stop being so serious about everything.
More people experience this than they realize.
You've turned your partnership into a committee meeting and forgotten how to simply be together.
“Where Are You with Ecopsychology?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.