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Scenario

When couples lose their playfulness after surviving trauma together

My wife and I survived the wildfire that took our house two years ago and we've rebuilt everything except our ability to be spontaneous or silly together - we plan every detail of everything now and I miss when we could just be ridiculous together.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The hypervigilance that kept you safe has calcified into a joyless precision that's suffocating the lightness you once shared.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Natural disasters and resilience?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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