My wife and I survived the wildfire that took our house two years ago and we've rebuilt everything except our ability to be spontaneous or silly together - we plan every detail of everything now and I miss when we could just be ridiculous together.
More people experience this than they realize.
The hypervigilance that kept you safe has calcified into a joyless precision that's suffocating the lightness you once shared.
“Where Are You with Natural disasters and resilience?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.