My wife and I used to be the couple that would get into passionate debates about movies and books and ideas, but now we're so focused on not fighting that our conversations have become incredibly bland. We're both walking on eggshells trying to keep things peaceful, but the peace feels hollow because nothing we say matters enough to disagree about.
More people experience this than they realize.
The fear of real disagreement has eliminated not just conflict but also the passionate engagement that made the relationship vital.
“Where Are You with Adult play — how to reclaim it?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.