My wife and I used to dance in the kitchen while cooking dinner and now we take turns cooking alone while the other scrolls their phone and we both miss it but somehow neither of us can figure out how to start dancing again.
More people experience this than they realize.
You've forgotten how to be silly together and now self-consciousness blocks every attempt.
“Where Are You with Adventure and risk?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.