Our book club has turned into everyone trying to sound smart and impressive instead of just talking about what we actually thought about the books. We used to argue and laugh and get passionate about ideas but now it feels like a performance and I think we're all afraid to be the first one to admit we miss the messiness.
More people experience this than they realize.
The group has unconsciously agreed to prioritize appearing sophisticated over being authentically engaged.
“Where Are You with Breathing and nature?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.