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When friend groups become too formal and lose their casual joy

Our book club used to be an excuse to drink wine and gossip and occasionally talk about books, but somewhere along the way we started taking ourselves really seriously and now we have structured discussions and reading schedules and I think we've forgotten we're supposed to be having fun.

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Your shared activity has become a performance of what you think it should be rather than what you actually enjoy.

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