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When family gatherings become too polite and lose their spark

Our family dinners have become these formal affairs where everyone is polite and careful and no one tells the embarrassing stories or teases each other anymore and I don't know if we're being more mature or if we've lost something essential.

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You've traded authenticity for politeness, and now your family feels like strangers performing the role of relatives.

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