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How to navigate group dreams about shared living when reality gets complicated

Our friend group has been talking about buying land together for years, and now two families actually found a property and want to move forward, but the rest of us are getting cold feet and nobody wants to be the one to say 'this is too big' or 'I'm not ready.' We all love the dream but we're afraid to either commit or let it go.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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The weight of turning a shared fantasy into actual decisions has drained all the joy from imagining your lives intertwined.

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