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Scenario

How to navigate group dreams about shared living when reality gets complicated

Our friend group has been talking about buying land together for years, and now two families actually found a property and want to move forward, but the rest of us are getting cold feet and nobody wants to be the one to say 'this is too big' or 'I'm not ready.' We all love the dream but we're afraid to either commit or let it go.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The weight of turning a shared fantasy into actual decisions has drained all the joy from imagining your lives intertwined.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Place attachment — loving where you are?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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