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When friend groups feel guilty about wanting non-productive vacation time

Our friend group keeps planning these expensive wellness retreats and transformational travel experiences because we read that leisure should be growth-oriented but we all secretly miss just lying on a beach doing absolutely nothing. We're too embarrassed to admit we want a vacation that isn't improving us.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The cultural pressure to optimize leisure has made simple pleasure feel like moral failure.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined vacation?”

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