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When friend groups struggle between intentional connection and natural hanging out

Our friend group started doing these deep sharing circles and intentional gatherings, and while it's meaningful, we all miss just hanging out without an agenda. None of us wants to be the one to suggest we go back to 'superficial' fun, but we're all secretly craving those unstructured nights we used to have.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire for deeper friendship has inadvertently created pressure that crowds out organic joy and ease.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined natural life — Nasreddin's synthesis?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.