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When friend groups lose authentic connection and start performing fun

Our friend group used to have these amazing nights where we'd lose track of time just talking and laughing, but now every hangout feels like we're all performing the fun we used to have naturally. Everyone brings their phones and we take pictures of ourselves 'having fun' but something essential is missing and we all feel it but don't know how to name it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The group has replaced genuine shared pleasure with the documentation and performance of it.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Pleasure and its examined life?”

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