Our rock climbing crew used to mess around and try ridiculous routes just for fun but everyone's gotten so safety-conscious and grade-focused that no one suggests anything spontaneous anymore. We all show up, climb our planned routes efficiently, and go home without the goofiness that used to make us close.
More people experience this than they realize.
The maturation of skills and awareness of risks has created a seriousness that's choking out the experimentation and laughter that built your bonds.
“Where Are You with Wilderness and adventure?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.