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When couples game nights become performative social media moments

We started a couples game night with two other couples and it's become this weird competitive thing where everyone is trying to prove how fun and spontaneous they are, complete with forced laughter and Instagram photos. None of us are actually relaxing or enjoying ourselves but we keep scheduling the next one.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The pressure to demonstrate friendship and fun has replaced the actual experience of having fun together.

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