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When pity motivates pet adoption

I adopted a three-legged cat because I felt sorry for it, but now I realize I chose suffering over joy and we're both stuck with my savior complex.

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Rescuing others can be a disguised form of rescuing ourselves from the discomfort of witnessing need.

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