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Why good people become their own worst enemies

I always volunteer to help everyone with everything and now I'm burned out and resentful but I don't know how to say no without feeling like a selfish person.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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The helper has forgotten that self-abandonment serves no one, least of all those they seek to serve.

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