I joined a running club to make friends but everyone is faster than me and I spend the whole time feeling inadequate instead of social.
More people experience this than they realize.
The vulnerability required for connection conflicts with the comparative nature of athletic environments.
“Where Are You with Sports — playing and watching?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.