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When self-deprecating humor reveals deeper self-rejection

I keep joking about how terrible I am at things but my friend told me it makes them uncomfortable to hear me talk about myself that way.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Comedic self-attack may serve as preemptive protection against others' judgment while reinforcing internal criticism.

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