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Scenario

When protecting children from losing backfires

I keep letting my eight-year-old win at checkers because I can't stand to see her disappointed, but now she thinks she's actually better than me and keeps challenging other kids who destroy her.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The impulse to shield others from discomfort often robs them of the resilience that only comes through genuine struggle.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Games — board games and card games?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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