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Why we repeat disappointing celebration patterns

I keep planning elaborate birthday parties for myself that nobody shows up to and I can't figure out why I keep doing this to myself.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The compulsive recreation of scenarios that cause pain often masks a deeper hunger for genuine connection.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Festivals and celebrations?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.