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When we lie to ourselves first and others second

I told my wife I was fine with her girls trip but now that she's gone I realize I'm angry about it and don't understand my own feelings.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The people-pleaser has become so skilled at self-deception they no longer recognize their own desires.

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