Periagoge
Scenario

When trying to control others' perceptions backfires

I wore a ridiculous outfit to my ex's wedding because I wanted everyone to think I was doing great but now I just look unhinged in all the photos.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desperate attempt to manage how others see our pain often produces the exact evidence of that pain we were trying to hide.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The sacred clown?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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