Periagoge
Scenario

How white lies create larger problems

My friend asked me to be honest about her new haircut and I said it looked great because I didn't want to hurt her feelings but now she's asking my opinion about everything and I've become accidentally unreliable.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your kindness has impersonated honesty so successfully that you're now trusted for a virtue you don't practice.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Nasreddin Hodja's stories — wisdom through absurdity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.