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Why structured approaches to intimacy sometimes create more distance

My partner wants us to do couples therapy exercises at home but it feels so clinical that it's actually making us less intimate.

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The attempt to systematize sacred connection can violate the organic nature of love, creating technique where mystery and spontaneity are required.

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