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When children use aggressive play to process separation anxiety

My son only wants to play violent war games since his dad deployed and I keep redirecting him to gentler activities but he just gets more aggressive.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The child needs to metabolize powerful feelings through play rather than have them sanitized away by anxious adults.

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