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How to distinguish between beneficial discipline and forced ritual

My son wants to quit piano lessons and part of me knows he should but I'm worried he'll regret not having any disciplined practice in his life.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The genuine desire to cultivate perseverance is tangled with the fear that without imposed structure, natural wisdom and motivation cannot emerge.

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“Where Are You with Ritual play and sacred games?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.