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Scenario

When siblings disagree on elderly parent care approaches

My brother and I are both caregiving for our mom with dementia and we have completely different philosophies about how much to preserve her independence versus keep her safe, and every decision feels like we're fighting about who loves her more.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Shared love for the same person can manifest as competing visions of care that each feel morally imperative.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Memory and retention across cultures?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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