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Scenario

When siblings enable each other's stress instead of relieving it

My brother and I are both dealing with chronic stress from our jobs in healthcare, and we've started this pattern of venting to each other that feels supportive in the moment but leaves us both more wound up afterward. We're wondering if we're actually helping each other cope or just reinforcing each other's stress patterns.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people sharing similar stressors have developed a dynamic that feels supportive but may be reinforcing maladaptive stress responses.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Stress — the psychology and biology?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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