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How siblings can coordinate care despite different coping styles

My brother and I are both taking care of our aging father and we handle stress completely differently - he withdraws and makes unilateral decisions, I want to talk everything through and plan together. We're both trying our best but we're making each other crazy and Dad is caught in the middle of our different styles.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The same stressor reveals incompatible survival strategies that worked in isolation but clash in collaboration.

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