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Scenario

When siblings disagree about elderly parent care approaches

My brother and I are both taking care of our aging mother and we have completely different ideas about what she needs — he thinks we should let her maintain independence as long as possible and I think we need more safety measures — and these conversations are tearing our family apart.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who love the same person are discovering that care itself can become a source of conflict when values and fears diverge.

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