My brother and I are both taking care of our aging mother and we have completely different ideas about what she needs — he thinks we should let her maintain independence as long as possible and I think we need more safety measures — and these conversations are tearing our family apart.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who love the same person are discovering that care itself can become a source of conflict when values and fears diverge.
“Where Are You with Nervous system regulation?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.