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Scenario

How siblings can align when setting boundaries with difficult parents

My brother and I are both trying to set boundaries with our alcoholic father but we keep undermining each other - when one of us holds firm, the other caves out of guilt, and dad has learned to play us against each other.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Without coordination, their individual healing efforts are being weaponized against their collective wellbeing.

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Patan
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