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Scenario

When siblings disagree on elderly parent care approaches

My brother and I are co-caring for our mom who has dementia and we have completely different philosophies about what's best for her. He wants to keep her at home as long as possible and I think she needs more professional care, and every conversation about it turns into a fight about who loves her more.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Shared responsibility for a loved one's wellbeing can expose fundamental differences in values that feel like betrayals.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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