My brother and I are co-executors of our mom's estate and we have completely different relationships with money and completely different ideas about what she would have wanted. Every conversation about dividing things up becomes a fight about deeper stuff we've never talked about and I don't think we can get through this without addressing those underlying issues.
More people experience this than they realize.
Practical necessities after death force confrontation with lifelong differences that were previously avoidable.
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