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Scenario

When siblings have different spiritual temperaments

My brother and I both reverted to Islam as adults and we're trying to support each other's spiritual development but we have completely different temperaments and what helps him with his nafs actually makes mine worse and it's creating tension between us.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Family members on parallel spiritual paths are discovering that their different psychological constitutions require different approaches to the same spiritual work.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Islamic psychology — nafs and spiritual wellbeing?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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