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When family competition undermines intellectual growth

My brother and I have always been competitive about being the 'smart one' in the family, and now that we're both adults trying to write and think seriously, this dynamic is poisoning what could be genuine intellectual collaboration. We share drafts and ideas but everything feels loaded with old sibling stuff about who's more insightful or original.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Historical patterns of rivalry are preventing two people from accessing the mutual support their creative and intellectual work requires.

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