My brother and I inherited our childhood home together after our mom died and we're supposed to decide what to do with it but every conversation turns into relitigating our entire childhood and who was the favorite and who got screwed over. We both want to honor her memory but we can't get past our own stuff long enough to make any actual decisions.
More people experience this than they realize.
A practical decision has become a container for unresolved family-of-origin wounds that prevent forward movement.
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