My brother and I inherited our parents' house and we both have completely different ideas about what to do with it - he wants to sell, I want to keep it in the family. But underneath that we're really fighting about different ways of processing grief and what honoring our parents means.
More people experience this than they realize.
A practical decision becomes impossible when it's actually a proxy war between different styles of grieving and different relationships to family legacy.
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