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Scenario

When siblings disagree about inherited property and unprocessed grief

My brother and I inherited our parents' house and we both have completely different ideas about what to do with it - he wants to sell, I want to keep it in the family. But underneath that we're really fighting about different ways of processing grief and what honoring our parents means.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A practical decision becomes impossible when it's actually a proxy war between different styles of grieving and different relationships to family legacy.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Mental health and physical health intersection?”

Peri

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