My business partner and I have been working together for three years and we're both perfectionists but in completely different ways — she obsesses over details I think don't matter and I get paralyzed by big decisions she makes easily. We're realizing our neuroses are creating this weird dance where we're both always anxious but never about the same things.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are discovering that their different perfectionistic tendencies, rather than balancing each other out, are creating a system of mutual dysregulation.
“Where Are You with Neurodivergence — lived experience?”
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