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Scenario

When parent and child share the same destructive patterns

My daughter and I are both perfectionists and we bring out the worst in each other - every conversation about school or future plans becomes this spiral of anxiety where we're both trying to manage the other person's stress and making it worse.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent and child's matching psychological patterns create a feedback loop that amplifies rather than soothes their shared struggle.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

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