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Scenario

When co-parenting triggers old relationship patterns

My ex-husband and I are trying to co-parent well but we keep falling into old relationship patterns during kid handoffs and I can see our daughter watching us repeat the same dynamics that led to our divorce.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The emotional muscle memory of a failed relationship can contaminate the necessary ongoing partnership of shared parenting.

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