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When spiritual practice doesn't translate to relationship skills

My girlfriend and I both meditate daily and consider ourselves pretty self-aware, but we keep having the same fight about money every few months and all our mindfulness seems to disappear when we're triggered.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Individual spiritual development proves insufficient for navigating the reactive patterns that emerge in intimate relationship.

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