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Scenario

When couples in individual therapy struggle to integrate growth together

My husband and I are both in individual therapy working on our own stuff but we're not sure how to integrate what we're learning in our marriage. Sometimes it feels like we're becoming different people and we don't know how to grow in the same direction instead of apart.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are each doing inner work but haven't learned how to share that transformation in a way that strengthens rather than threatens their bond.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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