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Scenario

When mother-daughter perfectionism collides during wedding planning

My mom and I are both perfectionists and we've been planning my wedding together for eight months and it's bringing out the absolute worst in both of us - we're micromanaging each other and everything feels like a criticism. We both want this to be beautiful and meaningful but we're making each other miserable in the process.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people with the same wound are trying to create something beautiful together but their shared pattern is preventing the very connection they both want.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Mental health and physical health intersection?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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