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Scenario

When family caregivers have conflicting approaches to care

My mom and I are both taking care of my grandmother with dementia and we have totally different philosophies about autonomy and safety — I want to respect her independence and my mom wants to protect her from harm — and every decision becomes a conflict about what love looks like.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Different expressions of love are creating moral conflict between people who share the same fundamental commitment.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parts work and Internal Family Systems?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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