My mom and I are both taking care of my grandmother with dementia and we have totally different philosophies about autonomy and safety — I want to respect her independence and my mom wants to protect her from harm — and every decision becomes a conflict about what love looks like.
More people experience this than they realize.
Different expressions of love are creating moral conflict between people who share the same fundamental commitment.
“Where Are You with Parts work and Internal Family Systems?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.